How does an appointment with a gigolo work?

An appointment always follows the same steps. Whether you're looking for a date, an evening together or something you've never done before, it starts with a message and a short call. That way you know what to expect beforehand, and you're not committed to anything until the appointment itself.

1. First message. You can email me if you want to stay anonymous, or text me on Telegram or WhatsApp. Asking a question is fine too, and all you need is a first name or nickname and what you're looking for. I usually reply within a few hours.
2. Getting to know each other. We have a short call or video call, no strings attached. You hear how I sound and can ask all your questions, and I tell you how I work. Then you decide whether you want to go on.
3. Agreements. We talk through what you'd like and what you'd rather not do, where we meet and how much time we take. I stick to what you tell me, and I'll also say what does and doesn't work for me. If something doesn't feel right during the date, let me know, and if you want to stop, we stop.
4. The appointment. We meet at the agreed place and do what we agreed: dinner, cooking together, a massage, sex or a combination. During the date I regularly ask how you're doing, so everything feels right and I never go past your boundaries. If it goes differently than planned, that's fine.
5. After our date. Beforehand I ask whether I may send you a message after the date, the next day or, after a night together, later that day. I ask whether everything was as you hoped and whether you have any questions, and I like hearing how you experienced it. If you'd rather not get a message, or want to send one yourself, that's possible too.

Where we meet

At your place, in a hotel, or first somewhere outside, such as a restaurant, a bar or a museum, anywhere in the Netherlands. If meeting at home straight away feels exciting in the wrong way, we start in a café or a park and only go to your home afterwards. Would you rather not meet at home, or want to get out for a bit? Then a hotel is possible too, which you book yourself. The costs and the minimum duration per region are on Rates. I work at weekends and sometimes on a weekday evening, always by appointment.